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Immigration Lawyers. Authentic Evil.

Once in a while I come back to this webpage and I see it’s still active. About 300 people visit it every month, people are still leaving comments, so I decided to write a new article.

Immigration lawyers. This is the first and the biggest evil in your case. Not your bad spouse, no. You spouse just wanted to get the papers. These motherfuckers want to suck out of you all your money, because you’re desperate.

Remember the legendary phrase “revenge is a dish that served cold”? Lawyers LOVE people who want to revenge hot. Because they’re so easy to manipulate and you can get as much as possible from them.

When I signed my attorney, I didn’t pay attention at “10% extra services” line in the contract. 10% doesn’t seem a big number at that time. Later I realized this POS was billing me 110%, just because. Simply adding 10% to each bill. When I called them every time asking what is was for, they said nonsense like for “postage and printing and shipping”. For my first bill I got $76 extra. They sent 2 certified first-class letters within a week. Can you bill $76 for that? Are you kidding me?

Also, contract said that lawyer is charging “no less that 1/6 hour per session”. Got it? If he talked to me on a phone for a minute or responded to my email, he charged 1/6 hour of work for that $375/6=$62.5! Think about this number again. $62 for a minute conversation or email response.

After our first court visit, I decided to wrap it up as soon as possible. When he sent me another crazy bill, I’ve told him that I want to fire him and finished case myself, he shit in his pants, cut my bill in half and came to the court free of charge!

REMEMBER! You can always report your attorney to Bar Association for excessive charges. They will come and do auditing for every dollar your lawyer billed you. If you got a bizarre bill from your lawyer and they don’t want to negotiate it, always tell them you’ll report them to BA for auditing!

BE CAREFUL with the lawyers, read contracts, ask questions and NEVER sign anything that doesn’t look right.

4 years later

I clearly remember February 14, 2014. Valentine’s Day. Exactly 4 years ago. It’s been exactly two weeks after we got separated. I still loved her and I still wanted to fix it. I texted her and told her how much I love her. How silly I was!

I have two news for you, guys. Good and bad.

Bad news: I saw her. Not in person, but on the pictures. Accidentally. I had no intention of looking for her (as it was before). But it happen. I saw her. She is still alive and she is still here. So I assume nothing had happen to her. She hasn’t been deported and most likely she got her green card. Which means only one thing – USCIS doesn’t care (in general).

Good news: I saw her and I still don’t care. She got her green card? Okay, good for her. Fuck off, little bitch.

My main point is: think about your life now. Your problem is a BUBBLE. If you’re inside of this bubble – your whole world is your problem. If you’re outside of your problem – you can just poke it and it will disappear. I know it’s hard but – GET OUT OF YOUR BUBBLE. Start to live without this person as soon as possible.

That was the result of my story: I’ve spent a lot of money and even more of my nerves and… the result was ZERO! She still lives here and most likely she got a green card. Don’t repeat my mistake! Revenge is not going to take you anywhere. Try to fix your life first, it’s more important.

Share your thoughts in comments. Happy Valentines Day, guys!

Love.

3 years later

So, it’s been 3 years since my divorce. I started this blog the same day I finalized the papers, I was desperate, I wanted to share my pain with the world.

Now it’s 2017, three years later. I let it go completely. I don’t know where she lives (or even if she is alive), what she is doing, is she single or not, etc. It’s not like I don’t know where to find this information. If I wanted to – I could easily get it in less than a minute from social networks. But I don’t want to, because for me she died exactly 3 years ago. I don’t want to dig her rotten body from the grave. I will never ever forgive her till the rest of the days. But she’s gone and I’m happy to continue my life without her.

Use Avvo – it’s helpful!

My visitors often ask me questions that I can’t answer. Simply because I’m not a lawyer.

That’s why I strongly recommend everyone to use avvo.com. This website gives you a unique opportunity to ask U.S. licenced lawyers as many questions as you want without paying them a single penny. During my divorce process I used it around 20 times – saved me plenty of time and money. Usually lawyers respond the same day.

Find yourself a psychiatrist

Have you ever seen a psychiatrist? Most likely you will respond “Why should I? I’m a normal person”. Fair enough.

In February 2014 I saw a psychiatrist. I do consider myself a normal person and I’ve always been. But one day I found myself in psychiatric office. Something went wrong.

After our separation I start to lose weight. I couldn’t normally eat and barely slept for 3-4 hours a day. It was a disaster. In 1,5 months my weight went down from 80 kg to 69. I sent my wife a message saying I’m suffering from lack of sleep and normal nutrition. Her response was something like “go and see a psychiatrist, he’s gonna help you”. So I went and saw him.

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2,5 years later…

My dear friends!

I created this blog in July 2014, a few days after my divorce was finalized. That time I was desperate and I wanted to share my story with the world. I completely forgot about this page, but suddenly like a year ago I started to receive e-mails – one, two, five, ten, twenty…

People from all over the U.S. were sharing their stories with me. People that I don’t know. Men and women. Desperate spouses that were fooled. Recently I opened stats and saw that around 150 people are visiting this page every week.

A lot of you asked me “what happened afterwards”? You asked me “was she deported?”, “did she receive her papers” and etc.

To be honest with you – I DON’T KNOW. And the most important part – I DON’T CARE. This person died for me the very next day after our divorce. It’s been 2,5 years already and I NEVER EVER checked her instagram, facebook page or etc. I don’t care if she got her papers or not, I don’t care if she’s alive or not. I just moved on and I’m happy now. My personal life is great!

So, that’s what I want to tell you. Right now your world is upside down. But in a few years you’re gonna be laughing at yourself. Promise you.

Please write down your comments, will try to address them all.

Greetings!

Welcome to my blog!

I can tell you are here not for a good reason.

Let me guess – you married someone to provide them a green card and then you marriage didn’t work and fall apart. I know how it feels, because I’m one of you.

I created this blog in order to provide a FREE informational help for people who feel desperate. Who feel abandoned. Who fell being screwed and scammed.

You don’t have to tell me your story – I know it already. Because all of them are THE SAME. You fell in love, you married an illegal alien, you filed for I-130, you passed USCIS interview, you spouse received his/hers permanent resident card and then in a week/month/year your marriage ended up in divorce. And now you feel desperate. You think that your spouse used you for green card! You’re sending angry letter to immigration office, you’re running around the law offices, you’re googling 24/7 for a legal advice. And in the most cases the only legal advise you get is “I’m sorry, there is nothing much you can do. Just forget and move on with your life”. Did I guess it right? And you know, I don’t have a crystal ball.

Cause, I have to repeat, all these stories ARE THE SAME.

But, the truth is THERE IS something you can do! The U.S. Laws do work! If your spouse was a crook, you CAN deport him/her from the country! But you have to do everything right. And I will show you how.

And We Are Done!

So, you already reported your ex-spouse to USCIS and ICE?

Congratulations, you’ve done your job. Now you can forget about this person and move on with your life. There is nothing much you can do afterwards.

Your only question is “What’s going to happen next?”

You spouse will file for I-751 Waiver form and will come to USCIS office for an interview with his/her lawyer. They will need to prove that your marriage was genuine. All your evidences and testimony will be used against him/her. The decision will be made based on evidences from both sides.

If USCIS officers will find your spouse more credible, he/she will be granted with a permanent green card.

If USCIS officers will find you more credible and think the marriage was sham, or they wouldn’t make their own decision because case is complicated – the case will be send to an Immigration Court and form I-751 will be denied. At this point I think you should consider it as a VICTORY for yourself, because 10 out of 10 people who’s I-751 was denied couldn’t sleep at night after that. Just google “I-751 denied” and read their stories. Good thing is – your spouse CAN’T appeal it.

Then case will go to immigration court and this process is extremely hard and extremely expensive. It can go for years sometimes. Your spouse will be put under a deportation condition and will need to prove again (this time in front of Judge) that your marriage was authentic. Otherwise one day guys from ICE will knock on his/her door. Or, you were lucky enough, it will happen even later.

I’m sorry for your time, nerves and money. I hope one day you’re going to meet a real person, who is going to see you as A HUMAN, but not only as AN OWNER OF THE U.S. PASSPORT.

If you like this blog and if you find my advises useful – please share them in your social accounts or send a link to your friends who may need a help with that.

Good luck! And move on! Life is not over!

How to report a marriage fraud to ICE

Marriage fraud is not something that ICE is taking care of. You should report your marriage fraud to USCIS.

However, immigration fraud IS something that ICE is taking care of. So a main point here is – the way you’re going to report your ex-spouse to ICE should be different from USCIS.

ICE doesn’t care whether your spouse was cheating on you or abusing you verbally. However they DO care about illegal activities that your spouse was involved into and how he/she was breaking the U.S. law while being an illegal immigrant.

Should you report your spouse to ICE? Definitely yes! But you should do it in a proper manner. Because if it’s something irrelevant, ICE will just ignore it. However, if you make ICE interested in your report, they will start an investigation.

So, I assume you should report your spouse to USCIS first. After you’ve done everything right it’s time to try your luck with ICE.

Before calling or sending a letter to ICE, make sure that your statement looks perfect.

Things that could be relevant are: prostitution, drug selling, breaking F1 law (working on a student visa), hiding money from taxes (working for cash), money laundering, and of course, immigration fraud.

You can call ICE at (866) 347-2423 and provide them with your spouse Alien Number, fill out the form on their website or send them a letter via Certified Mail. Don’t send it anonymously, make sure you enclose your contact information.